Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Sundays in My City - Happy birthday Adam!

Unknown Mami
Hosted by Unknown Mami

Today was Adam's 42nd birthday. The day began with the obligatory breakfast and presents in bed and then on to some slight silliness with Christmas tree decorating. Caitlin asked Adam to put an angel on the top of the tree. So he did.

The Angel on top of our tree

The Angel on top of our tree

He doesn't look too pleased!

He doesn't look too pleased

The middle part of the day was less than wonderful, but we'll skip over that, other than to mention that Adam had to go to his mum's place (who was oblivious to it being his birthday) and fix her toilet.

By late afternoon we had regained some equanimity, and Adam and Tom had made 12 bottles of ginger beer and 6 bottles of lemonade for our Christmas party next weekend. Then we headed off to Darling Harbour for dinner at Jordon's - the plan being to indulge in a seafood platter and a bottle of sav blanc. The order was duly placed, along with a few extras, and we began playing with Adam's new toy - a Canon Powershot S95. Most of the following photos were taken from our table in the restaurant.

The Christmas tree at Darling Harbour

Christmas tree at Darling Harbour

Caitlin

Caitlin

Me with my very indulgent cosmopolitan

Mim

Tom

Tom

Darling Harbour, looking towards Pyrmont Bridge - the world's oldest surviving electrically operated swingspan bridge.


Darling Harbour looking towards the Imax theatre.

Darling Harbour

People gathering to watch the street theatre and carols.

People gathering for Carols and street theatre

We were too busy eating to think of photographing the food until after we were fed. At which point fun was had with the crab shells.

Dave with his new hat?

The seafood platters on their tall stands were very tempting to the local seagull population. Several chips and scraps of fish were liberated from people's platters around us. One couple were given a water pistol by a waiter to defend their meal with! Our kids wanted to be armed as well but we were left alone by the birds for some reason, I think they knew we were watching them.

Seagull, keeping a close watch on people's seafood platters

My dessert defeated me in the end, I couldn't finish the last few bites. But I did drink the muscat!

The dessert that defeated me

The birthday boy

The birthday boy

The sun set as we sipped our coffee and the city lights came up

Darling Harbour at night

Time to go home!

Adam and Mim

Darling Harbour at night

Sydney Convention Centre and Jordons Restaurant

(Arachnophobes beware, the last two photos, which come after this shot of the Christmas tree, are of a huntsman spider.)

The tree at night

There was an unwelcome visitor waiting for us when we got home, eviction duties fall to me in these cases.

An eviction notice was served

Only a little specimen this time.

We came home to a visitor

And there you have it, my Sunday in my city.

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Monday, November 08, 2010

OOTD - Necklace pressie edition

This whole post is really just here so I can show off the lovely pendant in the last photo, but hey, may as well get the whole ensemble on record as well.

There's that bloody hat again. 

OOTD
Hat - Strand hatters
Necklace - gift
Top - Torrid
Pants - Target
Shoes - Colorado

I'll leave it to your imagination as to what elicited that look from me when I asked Adam to photograph the pendant.

Yes dear, a close-up please

My beautiful 40th birthday present from my brother and his family

40th birthday pressie

Friday, November 05, 2010

40

I turned forty a couple of weeks ago. My mum asked me recently how did it feel being 40 and I said it feels pretty much like being thirty felt, or even twenty. I'm quite sure I have changed over that time, what with the getting older and having kids and all, but in some fundamental way I don't feel any different. I don't think back to who I was as a newly married 21 year old and wonder what happened to that person, she's still right here.

For me forty seems full of possibilities.

My kids are getting older and more independent all the time, I can do more for myself and we can do more together as a family without having to calculate the possibility of a melt-down due to missed naps or late meals.

I'm taking singing lessons and the day after I turned forty I sang solo in front of a room full of people I didn't know (at a singing workshop organised by my teacher for all her students - there were judges and giving of critiques - eep!). Now, the fact that I'd spent the night before eating lots of fabulous Spanish food and drinking lots of sangria followed by singing karaoke for 5 hours and getting home at 2am meant that I wouldn't say I sang well, but I made people smile and even laugh a couple of times and it was fun. I'm sort of looking forward to next time.

I'm making things that people say nice things about and even occasionally give me money for, there's enormous satisfaction in creating something that gives someone else pleasure. People tend to be a little bemused by me not having pierced ears and hardly ever wearing jewellery given that I make the stuff. But I can't see it when I'm wearing it! It's much more fun to find myself talking to someone and realise they're wearing a pair of my earrings. Which happens quite a lot because heaps of them have been sold through the Mothers Day craft stall at the school for kids to give to their mums :-) Or seeing a bit of my weaving on someone's reenactment costume - so cool!

I'm more sure of myself than I've ever been. I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up and that's ok. I know who I am and what I believe to be important in life, I know that I'm content with what I've done with my life so far and I have things I want to do that promise to fill my time very nicely in the future. I know that learning and growing and expanding my horizons doesn't ever have to stop and I'm excited by that.

Every time I think about this arbitrarily supposedly significant milestone big-4-0 thing that I've just smashed past there's this voice that pops into my head with the refrain "Forty more years. FORTY MORE YEARS!!" I'm looking forward to them, and to the ones that come after that too. (With a maternal grandmother 15 days shy of her 100th birthday I think I can justify contemplating that possibility.)

Oh, one other thing, that voice in my head? If you want to hear exactly what it sounds like, watch this:



50 Things post No. 1

Friday, April 16, 2010

Friday Fragments

Mommy's Idea
Hosted by Mrs4444.


Time for a Friday Fragments brain dump. Lots of little bits of dubious value thrown together to masquerade as a post. When you've read mine you might like to head on over to Half-Past Kissin' Time and see what other all the other fabulous Friday Fragmenters have on offer.

The kids have been on holidays this week so I've been sleeping in and spending way too much time lazing around at home pretending I'm on holidays too. Despite that there are a few things I have achieved this week:

*****

I cooked a birthday dinner for my now 13 year old. Tacos and chicken fajitas, it was good. But I didn't cook the cake.

Happy birthday David!

Lighting his own candles

*****

I watched lots of Buffy with Caitlin, we've finished season 6 now. What? That's an achievement isn't it?

*****

I finished another length of tablet weaving, it was by far the slowest to weave of all the ones I've done up till now.

Un-flame-like Dragon's Breath - 1.5m

*****

I finally got around to putting my tablet weaving, necklaces, earrings and bracelets up for sale on-line - right here on my blog. I have intentions of working out how to add paypal purchasing buttons for each item, but that may take some time.

*****

I threw caution to the wind and added grated carrot and zucchini to my bolognese sauce. No one noticed and it was eaten quite happily. But I didn't like it. However, I strongly suspect I'd not have noticed either had I not known I put the veggies in there.

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I watched the first two episodes of the new season of Dr Who. And it was good. And I don't hate the new Doctor at all. Looking forward to more!

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Ummmm. Yep, that's about it!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

But wait! There's more...

I'm having that "it's never-ending!" feeling about life just at present. I rather suspect that when I stop I'm going to crash, Monday may be a bit of a write-off.

Yesterday at 7am, after going to bed at 4am (I was working, laptop disaster & database problems legacy), I kicked Adam out of bed to get the kids off to school and went back to sleep. Adam woke me at ten to nine and I hauled myself out of bed, my beading kit out to the car and me, car and kit down to Ariane's for a craft day. I made some more Christmas tree earrings, including some green ones, and a sodalite necklace (photos are a bit ordinary, there's no sunlight at 11pm :P I took some new ones, much better!).

Swarovski crystal and sterling silver Christmas tree earrings

Christmas tree earrings

Sodalite and riverstone necklace
Length ~52cm
Sodalite and riverstone necklace

Then it was back home to meet the kids - I arrived 30 seconds before their bus dropped them off across the road. I did a quick blog post and then abandoned the boys while I popped up the road to the shops to pick up salad supplies for dinner and a few odds and ends for the market stall on Sunday. Then came home and cooked date scones as a present for my Grandma while the boys made the salad.

99 years old and looking good!

Happy 99th birthday Grandma

Dinner last night was a buffet affair at my Grandma's nursing home with pretty much the whole extended family - my Mum, Dad, sister & family and brother & family, my Aunty Liz and Uncle Rob, cousins Warwick, Cameron and Rebecca and her family. Twenty four of us all up. It's not every day the matriarch turns 99 years old!

Food!

Nom nom nom

Today was Caitlin's dance concert - matinee and evening performances - which has taken up pretty much the whole day.

Ballet costume

Ballet costume 2009

Song and Dance costume

Song and dance costume 2009

I did manage to grab an hour to finish pricing all my stuff for tomorrow. I'm now tossing up between sleep and making a few more earrings. The markets start at 9am so I'll need to get going pretty early, sleep is sounding pretty good...

Friday, October 30, 2009

It's a dead man's party...

"Who could ask for more?
Everybody's comin', leave your body at the door
Leave your body and soul at the door . . ."

Tom's 8th birthday party in fact, he asked for a Halloween themed party and wanted a cake in the shape of Gachnar the fear demon from Buffy. It's nice to know he has such faith in my decorating skills (last year 2 years ago he asked for a Balrog). Yeah, no Gachnar I'm afraid. Instead he's getting this:


Tom's 8th birthday cake



Skeletal arm


The scale is all wrong but I can't imagine anyone is going to care. It's in the fridge at the moment, because when I took it outside to take photos the chocolate arm bones started to melt and sag - had to prop them up with toothpicks and scramble to make room in the fridge. Fortunately they survived the experience - these photos are post melt and re-setting. Phew!

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Time to edit my "About Me" blurb

At the moment it reads:
Hi, I'm Mim, a 38 year old mother of three (David 12 yrs, Caitlin 10 yrs and Thomas 7 yrs). I spend my time doing mum stuff, volunteering at the kids' school, making jewellery and occasionally pretending to be a viking and I also work part-time for a small magazine publisher. I'm a book addict and I'm always in need of new bookshelves. I have a dog, 2 cats and a 4 foot fish tank with one lonely fish in it.
To begin with, 3 of the numbers in the first sentence changed in the last 2 weeks, and then today there was a dramatic change to a couple of the numbers in the last sentence.

Don't go getting too excited though - it's the fish numbers that changed, the mammal population of the house remains the same.

It's been quite some time since I did any actual maintenance on the big fishtank, when people asked if there were any fish in there I'd say "possibly." Turns out the answer should have been "no." I think I've been feeding fish food to the plants for a while.

Anyway, today was Tom's eighth birthday and he'd been asking for a Siamese fighting fish for weeks. Problem is, I hate looking at those tiny little tanks with one slightly pathetic looking fish, so we asked about keeping them in a community tank and were assured it's possible as long as none of the other fish are nippy types. Tom, therefore, is now the proud owner of a 40L tropical fish tank and Simo the Siamese fighting fish is hanging out temporarily in one of my flower vases while we wait for the tank to be ready for him to live there.

Meanwhile, seeing as I was on a bit of a roll with the whole setting up of fishtanks thing, I cleaned out the big tank that sits in our front hall, rinsed the very dusty small tank that has been sitting unused in the kitchen and set it up in the lounge room, sorted through the accumulated crap in the cupboard under the big tank, took the kids shopping at Reef River Reptile up at Hornsby, came home with 6 silver tip tetras for the big tank, a bunch of plants and the afforementioned Simo, spent a good couple of hours fiddling around with tank layout and then collapsed in exhaustion. (Ten litre buckets of water are kind of heavy and there's an awful lot of them involved in setting up 280L worth of aquarium even when the 200L tank only needs half refilling.)

They look so pretty when they're all clean and tidy.

The big tank with the 6 silver tip tetras.

4ft fishtank

The small tank in our lounge room.

Our 20-inch tank

Tom's fishtank.

Tom's new fishtank

And last but not least, Simo the Siamese fighting fish.

Simo the siamese fighting fish

Now, to edit that blurb...

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Adam missed seeing Santa - AGAIN!

Every single year it happens, just when Adam has had to duck out to run an errand or fix a problem, there's the call of "Ho, Ho, Ho, Merry Christmas!" and this big guy in a silly red suit turns up at our Christmas party with a sack full of gifts for all the kids. Saturday afternoon was no different....

Santa arrives


This year our Christmas party doubled as Adam's 40th birthday party but slack buggers that we are there was no cake and we never actually sang Happy Birthday to him. Poor Adam, no Santa and no birthday song either.

What we did have was perfect weather, an over-abundance of yummy food (I keep telling people they don't need to bring anything but do they listen? Thank you all for ignoring me!), beer champagne, mango daiquiris, moscow mules (thanks Jen!), terrific company, happy and beautifully well behaved kids, a well used trampoline, some awesomely bad (and some surprisingly good) drunken Singstar performances and very little sleep.

Many thanks to everyone who came along, it was a wonderful start to the Christmas festivities. Celebrating with my "found family" is the best part of the season for me, you're all good people and I feel very privileged to have such wonderful friends.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Happy (belated) 98th birthday Grandma

On Friday I had lunch with my mum and my grandma.

I was one day late seeing Grandma for her birthday and missed out on being part of the larger family gathering the night before but there were advantages to being there just with my mum and the birthday girl. Grandma finds it very difficult to hear people when there's a lot of background noise (though her new hearing aides are helping) so it's much easier to carry on a conversation with her with no-one else around.

We talked about curries and Chinese food - Grandma is a fan of both and is disappointed by the curry served at the nursing home, it lacks flavour. She asked how I was getting my housework done now that I'm in paid work - I joked that it wasn't getting done (except it's not a joke but that's not a new situation, I'm not much of a clean freak and besides Adam does at least as much as me round the house). We discussed the trickier clues in today's Sydney Morning Herald crossword - Grandma does it every day. When asked what I was doing with the rest of my day I said nothing exciting, maybe some laundry, Grandma told me that when her kids were young she swore to herself that once they were out of nappies she was only ever going to wash once a week because she hated it and besides it was more efficient not to wash every day - well it would be if you had to fire up the copper to get it done! It's no wonder Grandma hated the laundry so much, hand washing and line drying nappies for twins born in mid-winter would traumatise anyone.

Happy 98th birthday Grandma!

After lunch we took our cups of tea out to the verandah and sat in the sun for a while, when we went back in Grandma's glasses (they're the ones that change tint depending on light levels) were so dark she couldn't see a thing, had to take them off, it's a good thing she moves slowly with that walker of hers, a half-blind wheely-frame driver moving at speed would be a right menace.

I didn't have a particularly close relationship with Grandma until I started to spend time with her on my own as an adult. I'm very glad she's been around for me to get to know properly, and for my kids to have the chance to know her.

Happy 98th birthday Grandma.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Birthdays galore

Thursday was my birthday, I scored omelet for breakfast, a Dr Who calendar, Bill Bailey dvd, Goodies dvd, a couple of books of medieval tunes sheet music and the Spicks and Specks trivia game. I spent my day doing present shopping for Tom and having lunch with my mum and grandma. In the evening my mum and dad came with us for teppanyaki at Fujiya, which was entertaining and scrumptious, and there may have been some red bubbly and sav blanc involved. Good day :)

Today was Tom's birthday, we celebrated by taking five of his friends to Sydney Wildlife World, having lunch at the cafe there, gelato from the shop at the Aquarium and then cake from Michel's at home. It went pretty well considering we were out with six 7 year old boys, they all seemed to have fun and although Adam, my mum (no, she doesn't live with me, in fact she spent last night at my sister's place) and I were pretty tired our nerves were in good order. Tom got Guitar Hero for his birthday so that's been getting quite a workout this afternoon. As I type this, Adam is cooking a BBQ dinner, my dad and his mum are here and we're having steak, snags, prawns, corn on the cob, jacket potatoes, greek salad and coleslaw - quite a feast.

Tonight I plan on going to bed early.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Beorg-wic and birthday party reporting

Here we are at the end of two weeks of school holidays and I feel absolutely wiped out. Not because having the kids around has worn thin, they seem to have grown up enough for that not to be such a problem any more. Rather it's because I've spent pretty much the whole 2 weeks with a horrible lurgi. Same thing happened to me last school holidays too. I feel cheated. All I can say is it's a damn good thing that being a Dark Ages reenactor doesn't require you to give up paracetamol and anti-histamines as well as plumbing and electricity.

Let me tell you some more about last weekend. I did mention that the only facilities at Beorg-wic were pit toilets, didn't I? I went from Friday morning to Monday night without a shower, we had to carry in all our water and we couldn't park our car next to the tent site so everything had to be carried about 100m in along a bush path. Which is fine until you get to the tent, tent poles and 2 full 20L water containers. Plus, because I was sick and functioning on Codral, I couldn't do any of the heavy lifting (every time I tried the world would start spinning) so Adam had to carry it all himself. Adam also did the vast majority of packing for the trip, including supervising the kids packing. Caitlin did fine, she had everything she needed. David didn't pack any underwear. Tom packed a bouncy ball. Yep, JUST a ball, nothing else. It's a bloody good thing we packed the viking clothes separately and I, on a whim chucked in an extra pair of long pants for Tom. As it was, after a bit of toilet mis-timing on the first day Tom was stuck with going commando for the rest of the weekend. All of which explains why I didn't hold high hopes of enjoying myself.

Then there was the weather. Friday night the forecast was for thunderstorms. In the end we didn't get thunder but there was plenty of wind which we could hear in the tops of the trees (the pine forest was surprisingly sheltered and the wind didn't reach us) and enough rain to have us huddling under our half-pitched awning to have dinner. It was raining fairly steadily well into the morning on Saturday, I think the folks running the camp were beginning to get a bit worried about how they were going to manage, but it started clearing on the afternoon so all was well.

The tavern - it would have been interesting if we'd had to fit 160 people in here for the feasts had the rain not gone away.
The tavern

We had light rain off and on until mid-afternoon on Sunday when the sun decided to come out, rain again overnight, clear on Monday morning and then just as we finished packing the car at lunchtime on Monday huge black clouds rolled in again. Packing the car was interesting. I was still not up to much physically and Adam was a bit worse for wear too. Thankfully we were able to borrow a trolley from one of the other families to get the heavy stuff back to the car - there were a few people with either wheel barrows or trolleys, we'll certainly be taking one when we go next year.

Various workshops were run throughout the weekend. I attended one on ladies' headdresses on Saturday morning, who knew there were so many different ways to wrap a piece of cloth around your head? I skipped the candle making and soapstone carving, had a quick go at the archery range and then did the tablet weaving workshop late on Saturday afternoon. Adam wowed everyone with his shot to Harold's eye at the archery range and then spent most of Saturday afternoon at the forge.

Harold shot in the eye

Adam impersonating a blacksmith

First up was turning a long thin bit of metal into a longer thinner bit of metal. This took quite some time. He wasn't quite sure what to do with it after that which is why we ended up with the hook. The knife didn't seem to take quite as long, I think he was getting the hang of it. He spent most of the evening fishing for sympathy because his forearms were really sore.

On Sunday I didn't do much, just wandered around chatting to people and taking it easy. Adam decided to join in the mock fighting. This turned out to be not such a great idea as he ended up on the receiving end of a shield charge, was sent flying and got himself a suspected cracked rib for his troubles. He took it a bit easier in the afternoon and stuck to the tablet weaving class.

Tablet weaving lesson

One of the best things about the camp was that it was catered on Saturday and Sunday night and I didn't even have to provide for the other meals - the other Huscarls (or to be precise, one Huscarl and one honorary Huscarl on loan from Uppsala) undertook to bring food for us all. We had porridge with fruit, cinnamon and honey for breakfast (cooked in a proper cast iron cauldron, but we cheated and used our gas stove instead of an open fire), cheeses, bread, dates, nuts, apples, pears, grapes, chorizo and smoked salmon for lunches.

Our campfire, which kept going out in the rain. We had neighbours who very kindly kept letting us steal coals from their fire to get it going again.

Our campfire

We brought some snack food for the kids and beer. Gotta have beer! The feasts that were provided by the Ancient Arts Fellowship were very impressive - 4 courses each night and so much food we didn't make it to dessert either night. It was all authentic-ish food too (though I do believe there were potatoes in the stew) including lamb stew, roast beef and pork, chicken and bacon pastries, honey roasted veggies, pears poached in red wine, there was more but I was full and I can't remember the stuff I didn't eat.

So that was last weekend. I spent most of the week trying to recover and get up the energy for yesterday's exploits.

Caitlin's birthday party. At Luna Park. We only took 3 of her friends and my mum came along, so it wasn't that big a deal. All the girls were very well behaved and they all seemed to have a good time. I decided not to try and pack a picnic even though I knew the food there would be both over-priced and not very nice (I was was right). The one good thing about the place is that there's no entry charge and as neither Adam or I have the smallest desire to do any rides I was only paying for the kids, mind you it's still pretty pricey, we won't be going back in a hurry that's for sure. The fun part of the day was the way Tom kept vanishing on us. One moment he'd be standing just there, the next he'd be no-where to be seen, 'twas a little stressful. Caitlin's friends arrived at our place at 9:30am and we got back at 3:15pm, we had a bit of rest and then went out for dinner at our local chinese restaurant, Lee Central Park with my mum and my aunt (mum's twin sister) and uncle. As always the food was great, the staff good humoured and we came home stuffed to the gills and ready for some serious sleeping.

Today I went to my grandma's unit that she moved out of recently (at 97 she finally had to shift to a nursing home), I was meeting up with various other family members to go through all the stuff she wasn't able to take with her, pick out some bits and pieces to keep as memorabilia and help with getting the place cleared out so it can be sold. My mum, dad, both mum's sister's and their husbands, my brother and his family and my sister and her family were there. I decided not to add another 4 bodies to the mix and went by myself. My brother's wife took their kids to our place after they'd been at Grandma's a short time and then, once we'd finished at the unit, Martin and I bought lunch supplies and we spent the afternoon sitting on our front deck while the cousins played.

I hadn't planned to take much from the unit but ended up coming home with a box full of stuff and a small coffee table - we did kind of need one of those, now I can toss the kid's table from Ikea that we've been using up till now.

My favourite thing, that I just had to have, is a quite large (maybe 1.5L?) metal cannister which has the label "DRIPPING" stamped on it. Just looking at it quite boggles my mind, the sheer quantity of the stuff it was intended to store! Mum tells stories of snacks of bread and dripping so I know Grandma definitely used to use it. I also grabbed a letter opener that I have vivid memories of being forbidden to touch as it lay on the desk in my Grandparent's dining room in Epping. Caitlin unpacked the box, picked up the letter opener and said "Wow, even though Great Grandma is really old she has some really cool stuff" and I said "Yeah, put that down, it's kind of sharp." Guess that's why I wasn't allowed to touch!

And now, I'm off to bed, back to school and work tomorrow.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Caitlin

You are my daughter.

I carried you inside me...and was violently ill for weeks on end (thanks very much). You were born in an entirely civilized fashion at 9:15 on a Sunday evening and then proceeded to ignore civilized timing of pretty much anything for many months. So, perfectly normal baby really. We even had your cot in the lounge room for a while and would retreat to our bedroom of an evening so that you wouldn't disturb your brother when it was time for bed. In the end we gave in and kicked daddy out of his study to give the two of you separate bedrooms. You convinced us to get rid of the cot and put you in a proper bed when you started climbing up over the high cot sides and plummeting to the floor at about 16 months of age. We put you on a mattress on the floor at first (because we already had one and buying a bed could wait). Good thing too, for the first week or so I'd come in most mornings to find you curled up on the floor on the other side of the room. Luckily the weather was still warm.

I sometimes joke that you are my changeling. Tiny and blonde to my big and brunette. You love dolls, I loathe them. You loved all things pink, I shuddered and refused to paint your bedroom walls pink. We went with blue and purple which you now claim as your favourite colours (phew!). You love all things Disney, again with the shudder from me. As you've grown older though, I find we have much in common. You've always loved to sing and I love sharing my favourite musicals with you. You love to dance - me too! - and I love watching you dance. We enjoy the same books, I'm so thrilled that you're starting to want to read more. You're well on your way to becoming a fantasy fan and I'm working on turning you into a sci-fi fan.

When I was little I wanted to be Robin Hood (ok there's one Disney film that doesn't make me shudder). I'm still all for dressing up and playing with bows and arrows. Seems you're quite keen on that idea too.
Archer Caitlin

I'm looking forward to the years ahead, yep, even the teenager stuff, the stuff I'm supposed to be scared of. I'm not scared, in fact I'm pretty sure we're going to do ok negotiating the minefields of adolescence. (Please leave me in my happy delusion for as long as possible.)

From when you were very young you have shown great empathy for others. When I explained to you recently how much it would mean to the boy in your dance class who has Down Syndrome to be welcomed with a smile when it was your turn to dance with him I could see you understood. And the next week as I watched the end of your class, even though you were frustrated by being paired with someone who couldn't get the steps quite right, I saw you smile at him and I saw his face light up.

I love you and I'm proud of you.

You are a sister.

Tom: "You're nice. I like going on the trampoline with you. I love you."

David:
Big brothers are OK
(They do say a picture is worth a thousand words.)

You are a granddaughter.
Ballet costume 2007
You bring joy to your grandparents' lives with something as simple as a hug, a kiss, a drawing, an invitation to visit. You were the only one who thought to write Grandma a card saying how sorry you were when Grandma and Grandy decided not to live together any more, it meant a lot to her. When Grandy tells me about you giving him a goodnight kiss I can see the happiness you've given him. All your grandparents always come to your end of year concert to see you dance, one year Nana came even though her knee was still very sore after she broke it. Your grandparents love you very much.

You are a great-granddaughter.

When Great Grandma was in hospital you sat on the edge of her bed and played gently with her hair. She said no-one had done that for many, many years. I think she thought it was very special that you wanted to be close to her. You make her smile, she loves you.

You are a cousin.

I watched you and your cousin with your ipod when we were at the restaurant for Father's Day. Your heads were bent over the small screen together, faces alight with the pleasure of sharing. Your cousins throw their arms around you when we meet and again when we're going home, they love being with you.
Cousins

You are a friend.

You care about your friends, things don't always go as smoothly as they might but you're willing to make the effort to fix things if they do go wrong. I've seen friends seize you in giant hugs, I've seen smiles of happy greetings, I've seen them not want to leave when it's time to go home. And I hear you speak of them with compassion and understanding. You are a good friend.

Dancer, singer, artist, storyteller, basketball player, trampoline tumbler, cuddler of cats and playmate of dog.

Tap costume 2007

Bounce

Happy 10th birthday my gorgeous girl.